In my opinion, the relationship between Edward and Bella is a dangerous one for teens to idolize. Edward is glamorized as being romantic and protective of Bella, but his actions can also be viewed as abusive and controlling. At one point in one of the books, Edward removes the engine from Bella's truck in order to prevent her from seeing Jacob. Edward doesn't trust Bella, and likes to control her actions. Such behaviors should not be glamorized to young teens who are beginning to date themselves.
Also, it is glamorized as being romantic when Edward sneaks into Bella's house at night to watch her while she sleeps. I find that creepy rather than romantic, and Edward should be arrested for breaking and entering.
I've talked to many young teen girls who insist that Edward's actions are romantic and he is the epitome of the "perfect guy", and I do my best to convince them to rethink things through a bit.
Is Bella really the role model that teens should be looking up to and emulating? She defines herself by her romantic relationship with Edward, often claiming she's nothing without him. Feminism has progressed way too far to set us back 50 years and putting the man in charge of the relationship. Bella needs to stand on her own two feet and think for herself.
As much as I criticize the Twilight novels, I can't completely condemn anything that encourages kids today to step away from their cell phones and laptops and pick up a book. I just highly encourage discussing the relationships in Twilight with your children as they read. Or better yet, pick up a copy of "The Hunger Games" which has a similar love triangle, similar danger, and a much stronger role model.
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